By Chris Emeka 'Jazz'
At the mention of the
compound phrase, a shudder of confusion would always course through the mind.
Gold-circle, to a lot of people, is a thing
that excited them in one time or another, beyond the limits of human
tolerance, draining the love juice from them like rich warm wine. A sexually
driven item you might call it but it is actually far from that.
It is the
stage, location or premise, where nothing else matters to you than your sweet
romance burning like a freshly kindled fire. It's the circle that gives restriction
to and alters your normal life, personality and who you are.
Love-Circle, as you may want to put it, is a
phenomenal transformation that gives a pleasure one can no longer forbid. A
bittersweet pain it gives, depending on how equipped the duet involved in the
circle are.
A no-go zone for many it has appeared to
be, a wonderland to the ones who have allowed themselves to be lifted by its
rising passion; many are pained with the strain of withholding themselves from
the touching sensation of the freshly kindled fire; a rare and unusual effect
it gave to those who for once or twice tasted from its rich depths,with every
moment of its span; sweet or sour, leaving memories to linger in the hearts of
its benefactors.
Call it a union, companionship, relationship
or agreement, then you are not far from the truth. Its events and procedure just
manages to evoke the coward that lurks in every man even at their strongest.
Even if it is a freshly kindled
fire, surely, it needs a source of fuel to sustain and keep the flames burning
brightly. This is the point where you need 'knowledge, trust, understanding, belief, selflessness, care, affection, attention, passion
and compassion'. These elements should be considered at all times, always pouring
your subconscious mind like a warm cascade to enhance the bond and to avoid an
emotional hangover.
So, live, share, love, care and stay in the
'Gold-circle!'. It happens to everyone!
Labels: Guest post, Relationships
