Hey ladies! I'm sure you're itching to read what is contained in this post (or but before you begin, i would like to point out that there are more ways to know he is serious, every guy probably has own way of showing it, but i believe these are at the most basic ways.

#1 He is interested in your life- If you tell him about how nervous you are concerning the next promotion at work or the next big move in your career and he calls you to check how it is going, asking every step of the way how you are feeling, then he is there for real. Men who want something real dont hesitate to know everything going on in your life.

#2 He is never too busy to call- Face it, nobody is too busy to call someone special. An “I called to say I miss you” call won’t last more than a minute, so when you truly care, you won’t be too busy to call. A man who is never to busy to call you and who calls back when he misses your call or text is one who is serious enough. You know why? Because men know how seriously women take the calls they put through to their man. They know women get angry when a man refuses to acknowledge their calls. So when he calls back to say “I’m so sorry I couldn’t reply your message or call at the time…” Or makes it up to you? Then he just might be for real.

#3 He is willing to help- Whenever you need to get something done and you discuss it with him, if his immediate/automatic response is “so what are you going to do?” Without him offering to help in any way, then he just is not in it for the long term. A man who is into you and wants to start something serious would try to find out how he can help when you are in a fix. Not ask you without being concerned what you want to do. Men like to be men by helping their women and easing their stress. If he cares and is for real, he would offer to help. As simple as that.

#4 He is interested in your career- A man who truly wants to be with you will be concerned about your career and your future plans. If he is serious bout your future then it means he is serious about you.

#5 He is proud of you- He takes you out and flaunts you whenever he has the chance. He does not leave you standing by yourself while talking to his friends in a party or an event, rather he stands by you and lets everyone know who you are to him.

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*clears throat* I would like to add... if you find that your man is lacking in some of these areas, please! you should not hassle or nag him or complain about it to him, let it come NATURALLY from him...das all! *big grin*



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  1. Nyce one miss purple,
    Fyn, nw d ladies got an idea of wat to look out for in a guy dat's serious!
    What about us gentlemen? We need to knw hw to knw dat a gal is serious! I believe a lot of us guy would luv to hear u talk bout that


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