I abandoned the soap after a while and rushed down to my shelf to get my photo album. I quickly searched for my graduation picture. I was greeted by a delightful smile, her dimples was clearly visible and she was on a clean low cut. On the contrary, I welcomed the smile with tears gathering in my eyes, a taste of dissatisfaction and disappointment. A lost dream smiling at me, a great mind, a wonderful personality which was subdued by fate.
For a whole week, I was reflecting on my own life, how things would have turned if I had the same fate as my childhood friend. I could picture her face in my mind everywhere i went.
*****
"Democracy has come to stay, it is for the people". That was the headline news in THE PARROT newspaper of may 29, 2001. It was democracy day and a public holiday. It was a relief for me, because I didn't have to go to the office.
I took out time to do my laundry and I was done in no time. I normally hang out with my friends during public holidays, but I opted to visit Angela instead. I felt maybe another visit would clear her off my mind.
I was ready for another emotional torture, but this time It would no longer come as a surprise.
The kids were playing outside when I entered the compound. Angela was playing with them happily. "Happy mood, I guess!", I shouted jokingly. "What a surprise", she said in an exciting tone. "You were the last person I was expecting today", she added.
"You are looking very strong today, I'm happy about that", I continued. She smiled at me, and then turned away. She raised her head and said subtly, "To be strong doesn't mean you don't feel the pain, it means you feel and understand it, but you still choose to be happy".
I was flabbergasted with what I heard, I never expected such a reply. This lady might have been robbed of her future, but her sheer brilliance was still intact, I thought to myself.
"Basil, my ordeal is no longer news as you can see for yourself. I really need your help. My future was taken away from me by my parents", she said, "and these kids were the fruit of that union", she continued. I was concentrating with my whole mind that I could hear the sound of the wind, she was talking with so much authority and vigor.
"These kids must not suffer the same ordeal as me, she said. Her eyes were fiercely looking, with so much fire. Not just my kids but other poor kids as well", she added.
"Our kids must earn the right to education, irrespective of their background, they must have the right to choose their future". She was in 'auto mode', it was as if I was at a university lecture. I was beginning to feel a sense of responsibility.
"I want you to join me Basil, I have a new dream, a new cause", she continued. "The first was taken away from me, but this one, with you, nobody would be able to rob me of it".
My legs were shaking, I couldn't place why she had so much faith in me. But one thing was certain, I was in for a ride with 'fate', I need to help my childhood friend achieve her dream.
She gave me no choice to choose. A lady to admire. That was the birth of 'An African child', a leading NGO in the country today.